About Me
You want to make a change.
You know you were meant to do more in this life of yours.
You are here for bigger things and you know you’ve not found them yet.
There’s a voice inside your head that keeps nagging away, an unsettled feeling in your heart and a fire in your belly that no matter how much you ignore and no matter how much life wears you down it won’t go away.
You want to make a difference and leave a powerful mark in your corner of the world, heck perhaps more than that. You have a passion and a fire inside.
You want the key to fully unlock that magic box of tools in your mind.
Learning Neuro Linguistic Programming, Time Line Therapy(TM) and Hypnosis will expand your thinking beyond your imagination.
It will reveal your full capabilities, your personal power and enable you to step into being who you want to be, unapologetically.
Whether you want to have coaching or become an NLP Practitioner to accelerate your career, coach others to make positive and empowering changes, you will find something here for you.
My Story
Hi, I’m Fenella,
In May 2003 I decided that life was for living – I mean every day, to the full, not sweating the small stuff or worrying about things that weren’t really important, being more present and noticing things, learning, connecting and having adventures.
I was standing in the adventure playground that I ran, being faced by a barrage of abuse from a young woman who came in every so often and something just snapped inside me. I replied in no uncertain terms, swearing and all.
That was the final straw, it was time to leave, not just for her but me also. I decided to say goodbye to over 10 years of working in adventure play and with children. Grief and burnout had sneaked up and bitten me on the behind and I now had to pay attention or it I would end up really hurt!
In the previous 2 years I’d lost both my brothers and my dad in 3 separate ways. I’d carried on, being strong because that’s who I was…so I thought. I focused on supporting the magical and motley crew of children (and parents) who frequented the playground, their safe space where they could be who they wanted to be, without judgement.
Many of their lives were messy. Some of the parent’s were absent and involved crises of their own. I managed and supported my team, dealt with fires, abuse and theft. Outside the team there was little external support for me.
So I ran away you might say, to find myself, to have adventures and live every day…not quite as if it were my last but you get the drift.
I had a huge number of adventures and some near misses, I learned Spanish, climbed mountains, trekked, walked puma’s in the jungle and worked with street kids in Cali, Colombia.
I met the most amazing people and learned much more about connecting, resilience and looking after each other.
On my return, I became a Personal Trainer, to me a natural progression as I’d been into fitness for years. I split my time between PT work and delivering training in Equality & Diversity and Playwork . Having been interested in nutrition since I was at school and then becoming a vegetarian and vegan back in the 80’s, it was a natural progression to train in nutrition coaching too.
Learning has always been an integral part of my life. I’m hugely curious and love to make connections between things. I’m always researching to keep up with new ideas and scientific discovery. Part of my personal journey has been and still is to challenge who I am, to increase my self awareness and consider how I interact and live in the world.
Studying NLP, Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy™ made all the jigsaw pieces slot into place and brought me to where I am today…
I take a whole person approach to teaching NLP, Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy™ and I’m incredibly passionate about what I teach, so I pay huge attention to the quality and precision of every training. I continue to coach individuals too in VIP breakthrough days and solution focussed brief coaching programmes. I believe it’s important to keep practising the art you teach for maintaining quality. Whether it’s in training or coaching it’s truly the most rewarding job to accompany someone on their journey to overcome limiting beliefs and blocks, rediscover their spark and go fulfil their potential.
My Values
Integrity
- Values led and acting honestly.
- Having an open mind and heart.
- Seeing each person as magnificent, and capable of incredible things.
- Sincere and authentic in interactions, with genuine desire to see people succeed.
- Mutual respect and belief in people’s capacity and capability to achieve.
- Recognising you have all the answers you need inside.
Inspire
- Passionate about NLP, Time Line Therapy(R) and Hypnosis and their capacity to generate positive change and results.
- Infusing learning environments with positive energy.
- Having a playful approach and helping people discover more joy in every area of life.
- Encouraging innovation, creativity, the sharing of ideas, individual and collective growth.
- Building community.
Freedom
- Recognising and embracing personal responsibility for the freedom it gives.
- Increasing choice and self determination.
- Having an optimistic outlook, being bold and courageous in action.
- Knowing your personal power and increasing self leadership skills.
- Valuing difference.
Commitment
- Fully committing to clients growth and success.
- Increasing choice and self determination.
- Supporting clients to achieve clarity, solid self belief, courageous action, self assurance and resilience.
- To students having comprehensive knowledge and accurate acquisition of NLP, NLP Coaching, Time Line Therapy(R) and Hypnosis, so they feel competent and confident in their use.
Balance
- Holding space for learning and change to take place.
- Creating an environment that is calm, open, non judgmental, where everything is possible and no topic is out of bounds.
- Connecting body, mind, emotion and soul, science, art and spirituality.
- Recognising that everything is always changing yet balance can always be present.
Transform
- Supporting clients to unlock their potential and create profound and lasting positive change.
- Encouraging clients to rise to challenges, be courageous and generate exceptional results in whatever they do.